For all intents and purposes, another view of the technological influences on human nature and interactions has to be taken. We’ve all seen the stream of barely functioning youths (youths used loosely here as I still consider myself in that category although the added parts of endless bills and “adult responsibility” persuade me otherwise), sauntering down the road, necks locked in a macabre stare at the illuminating portal of endless information and ignorance shattering capabilities as the very world around them ceases to exist. Now with such limitless possibilities for every scrap of recorded data on the face of the planet we are presented with a fact that this technology has a more positive effect in some way.
Unfortunately, this is the complete opposite of the case. Although at the very tip of a finger one could learn anything that your mind desires, if trends and regularity are anything to go by the most wanted information is feline related and the want to investigate the lives of others.
Facebook, for whatever reason, is the default website for most internet dwellers. A virtual melting pot of passive aggressive status’, alcohol and chemical fuelled photographic evidence worthy of showing the grandkids and more weather updates than Martin King on cocaine could spew out. This “social media” (a term humourlessly dipped in irony) has slowly captured most of the human population.
Now, before every negative opinion I can muster brings itself to the forefront of my mind, I feel I should at least present the positive aspects of this internet phenomenon. I couldn’t think of one. Honestly.
“But you can reconnect with old friends and acquaintances from years ago” A point which will inevitably be brought forward. A point which is absolutely redundant. Listen, if you haven’t seen or heard from certain people for a good few years, chances are there’s a reason for that. There’s at least a 50/50 that you or the other person don’t like each other. I haven’t met the guy who sat beside me in a particular class in school (for the last three years of my “education”) since I walked out of that building hands in the air grasping that first breath as a free man. Yet not so long ago a picture of what looked like this man plus 20 years of aging ( I’m guessing time was just as kind to him as he was to me in school) popped up on my computer screen asking if I would like the privilege of entering his (virtual) social circle.
Now this automatically made me think this dude has a shockingly short memory span. Of course I declined this kind request (if I didn’t want you knowing me then chances are time has healed those wounds). Seeing this it made me wonder if he really all of a sudden interested in creating a real world relationship or was this merely a want to increase his online friend quota. Something which is all too common.
I’ve seen many people who have over a thousand online friends and immediately I thought how the hell he makes any time for his actual life if he’s busy with his small army of friends. And in this little thought came an epiphany. People like aforementioned “friend” spend more time concocting a bite-sized aesthetically pleasing version of their lives to put prize of place online. A quick daily ego boost to their damaged and disappointing “real” life. An antidote to their disease of mundane reality. People who find the refresh bottom on the homepage like heroin addicts find quitting. Just one more time and I’m done.
Besides the Facebook addicted, few of whom will admit such a shame, there are those who use the site as some kind of personal therapist. A place where you can rant about absolutely anything and think that somehow in this endless pit of information that your problem will be solved or your opinion validated. I can personally guarantee you that neither of these things will happen. What will definitely happen is that a) you will have knowingly aired your dirty laundry in public (which gives me great ammo to utilise should I have the pleasure of ever taking to you, plus you automatically look like a bell end. Congrats!) and b) your opinion (like any opinion openly on view in the realm of the World Wide Web) will be disregarded, dissected and ensure an agreement between you and people equally as irrational (which makes great reading for me and plenty of other bystanders by the way.)
Oh and if your also one of those people who write up a status asking a question such as the electrifying “What times does the shop close at” instead of just googling it there’s a special circle of idiots you belong to. I won’t waste too much time writing about you people because I could just as easily google the phrase “fuck wits” and get faster and better results.
“Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I’m not sure about the universe.”
-Albert Einstein